Catfishing and How It Relates to Cyberbullying

Understanding the dynamics of catfishing

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The Internet and social media has connected people all over the world allowing. Now, it's easy for them to communicate with one another and build relationships. But this new connectivity also has opened the doors to fraud, deception, and cyberbullying. As a result, people are often tricked, bullied and taken advantage of by people who are not who they say they are.

For instance, pedophiles and other predators will pretend to be young teens in order to develop a relationships with teenagers. They encourage their targets to share intimate information that later is used to lure them into a meeting. These meetings are extremely dangerous because they could result in assault or abduction.

Meanwhile, teens also engage in impersonation online. Usually, their goal is to humiliate and embarrass their targets. This type of impersonation is a form of cyberbullying. Sometimes teens pretend to be someone else online and then post mean or sexually suggestive things in the target’s name. This mean behavior damages the target's online reputation. Other times, they pretend to be a fictitious person online in order to develop a fake relationship with the target. Later, they may use the information they gathered to embarrass and bully the target further. Developing fake relationships online is often called “catfishing.”

What Is Catfishing?

Catfishing is creating a fake identity online and using it to lure people into a relationship. In other words, people pretend to be someone they are not online in order to hook people into an online romance. Meanwhile, getting catfished means that a person has been tricked into a relationship by someone who is not who they say they are.

The term catfishing comes from the 2010 documentary called "Catfishing." In the documentary, 24-year-old Nev Schulman carried out an online relationship with 19-year-old Megan Faccio from Michigan. But, Megan Faccio did not even exist. Instead, the person he was communicating with was Angel Wesselman, a bored housewife who spent most of her time taking care of her handicapped stepsons. She created Megan and duped Schulman.

Another example of catfishing involved a star linebacker from Notre Dame, Manti Te’o. He also was tricked into believing his online girlfriend was a real person. Then, in an effort to untangle themselves from the mess, the impersonators even went so far as to indicate that his girlfriend had lost her battle with leukemia.

But catfishing is not limited to well-known people like Schulman or Te’o. It happens every day to adults and teens alike. In fact, research indicates that 83 million Facebook accounts are fake.

Catfishing and Cyberbullying

Impersonating someone else online is a form of cyberbullying. It is an intentional act that inflicts emotional harm on another person. Young teens are especially susceptible to catfishing because of they often “friend” people they do not know.

They also are at risk because they tend to share too much personal information, especially their emotions, with other people. Cyberbullies often exploit the emotions of others online especially if they discover something makes the person sad, depressed, afraid or lonely. Being vocal about wanting a boyfriend or girlfriend or by talking about dating a lot, makes teens more susceptible to cathfishing.

Possible Warning Signs 

To avoid being duped by a stranger online, look for these signs of a catfish.

  • Avoids personal communication. For instance, people who catfish often refuse to give out telephone numbers or use webcams. They also avoid Skype and FaceTime. 
  • Seems to look the same year after year. If you look at a catfish’s profile pictures over the years, they are often using the same picture for a number of years. Additionally, the catfish will look the same age year after year. All the pictures look the same.
  • Avoids contact by using traumatic life events as an excuse. These life events might include accidents, family emergencies, deaths, and illnesses such as cancer. They also may pretend to be traveling or visiting relatives and not able to meet.
  • Has an unusually large number of opposite sex “friends” online. For instance, female catfish will have a large ratio of male friends online. Likewise, male catfish will have a lot of female friends.
  • Appears vague about their past. People in relationships with them feel like they never quite have all the information. They also don't provide a lot of details about their past, but they also are very vague about their future plans, their family members, and their current job.

    If you find yourself in a situation that seems like a catfishing scandal, it is important to make copies of all your communications. This is your proof that something fraudulent happened. Remember, people who catfish will delete the account and everything in it as soon as they think they have been caught. If you are unsure if you have been catfished you can run a reverse image search on Google to see if the photos you have actually belong to someone else.

    If you do determine that you have been catfished, be sure to report it to the social media provider as soon as possible. You also may want to contact the police especially if the person has asked for money or to meet in person. Do not unfriend the person until you have talked with the proper authorities. Your online friendship may be the key to catching the catfish once and for all.

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