The Single Parent Statistics Based on Census Data

There are a lot of assumptions out there about single parents — and particularly single moms. For example, there are people who believe that "most" single moms choose to raise their kids solo, are unemployed, and receive government assistance. While every family's story is different, most don't support these assumptions.

When you examine U.S. Census data from 2015 (published in 2018), the actual single parent statistics may surprise you. Let's take a look...

According to Custodial Mothers and Fathers and Their Child Support: 2015, a report released by the U.S. Census Bureau every two years, there are approximately 13.7 million single parents in the United States today, and those parents are responsible for raising 22.4 million children. This number represents approximately 27 percent of children under 21 in the U.S. today.

Despite negative assumptions that most single moms "selfishly" chose to raise their kids solo, the majority of individuals raising children alone started out in committed relationships and never expected to be single parents.

Here's a picture of the "typical" single parent, according to the U.S. Census Bureau:

The presumption that most single parents are mothers is accurate. According to the Census data:

• Approximately 80.4 percent of custodial parents are mothers, and
• 19.6 percent of custodial parents (approximately 1 in 5) are fathers

The assumption that "most" single mothers are single from the outset is false. Of the mothers who are custodial parents:

• 40.6 percent are currently divorced or separated
• 42.6 percent have never been married
• 15.7 percent are married; in most cases, these numbers represent women who have remarried
• 1.2 percent were widowed

Another assumption about single moms is that most are unemployed. Again, that notion is not true according to the Census data.

• 50 percent of custodial single mothers are gainfully employed (work full time year-round)
• 19.9 percent did not have a job

One single parent family in poverty is one too many, but according to the U.S. Census data, poverty isn't the norm for most single-parent families, although the poverty rate for single-parent families was 10 percent higher than the U.S. average, according to the Census.

• 29.2 percent of custodial single mothers and their children lived in poverty
• 16.7 percent of custodial single fathers and their children lived in poverty

Another assumption about single moms is that "most" receive government assistance. According to the actual data:

• In 2015, 48.5 percent of custodial mothers received some form of government assistance 
• 36.6 percent received SNAP (Supplemental Nutrition Assistance Program) benefits
• 30.6 percent of custodial fathers received some form of government assistance

Another assumption about single moms is that "most" are young. According to the actual data:

• 40.1 percent of custodial mothers are 40 years old or older

Finally, another assumption about single moms is that "most" are raising multiple children. In reality:

• 53.6 percent of custodial mothers are raising one child from the absent parent
• 46.4 percent have two or more children living with them

While these numbers give a snapshot, they don't tell the real story about what it means to be a single parent. For every story you hear about a single mom or dad abusing government benefits or living up to some other negative stereotype, remember that those behaviors don't reflect the reality most single-parent families face. If you want to know more, ignore the stereotypes altogether and get to know the single mom who lives next door or whose children attend the same school as your own kids. First-hand experience is the best way to buck these widely held stereotypes and build a community of support in their place!