Feeling Your Baby Move in Pregnancy

Bubbles. Butterflies. Gas. These are all words used to describe what a baby's first movements feel like to a mother. Quickening is defined as the first time you feel your baby move. This is a long-anticipated event in every pregnancy.

If you're pregnant with your first baby, you can expect to feel your baby for the first time between 18 and 24 weeks gestation. If this is not your first baby you'll likely feel your baby a bit sooner than you felt your first. This is likely because you know what it feels like and your uterus is more stretched out than it was the first time around.

There may be reasons that you're not feeling movement as early as you're expecting to feel it. Many of these are normal occurrences, including:

• Your body weight. If you're overweight or obese, it may take a little bit longer to feel your baby move since your abdominal wall is thicker.
• The amount of amniotic fluid. If there is less amniotic fluid, this can cause you to not feel your baby move as much because he or she isn't able to move around as well.
• Location of your placenta. If the placenta is in the abdominal area of your uterus, it may take longer to feel movement thanks to the extra padding there.

The second big milestone is when others can also feel the baby move. This won't happen until after you feel the baby move and may be infrequent enough that it takes a while before others can feel it from the outside. However, it's different for everyone. Your partner might be surprised by a quick thump here or there after many weeks of patiently (or impatiently) waiting. A sibling might get a quick bump on the cheek or hand and be very excited about the reality of the new baby.

After the joy of feeling these first movements happens fear sets in. Is your baby moving too much? Not enough? Medical studies have found that doing ​fetal kick counts after the 28th week of pregnancy is actually one of the better predictors of fetal well-being.​

It has not been found that an active fetus will be a hyperactive child. Nor can you predict gender by fetal movements.

Towards the end of pregnancy, the movements may actually become uncomfortable or even painful. Babies have been known to kick mom in the ribs, bladder, and anywhere else their tiny feet can reach. Typically helping baby shift position by doing some pelvic tilts will help alleviate this discomfort.

When you're in labor and working hard and anticipating those first cries, remember to take a moment and feel those last movements of the baby inside your body. Believe it or not, you will probably miss them.