Single Parenting Child Custody How Fathers Can Win Child Custody By Debrina Washington Debrina Washington is a New York-based family law attorney and writer, who runs her own virtual practice to assist single parents with legal issues. Learn about our editorial process Debrina Washington Updated on April 04, 2020 Print Thomas Tolstrup / Getty Images It's often assumed that mothers always get child custody when parents separate, but that's not exactly true. Legally, fathers have as much of a chance of getting child custody as mothers do. Here are some considerations for fathers who hope to win child custody. Factors Considered in Child Custody for Fathers A father who wants to get child custody should consider the following factors that may be used to determine a child custody case: Adequate documentation: A father who is interested in getting child custody should prepare all appropriate documentation regarding visitation schedules and child support payments prior to a court hearing.Courtroom etiquette: A father who is interested in getting child custody should refrain from all courtroom outbursts and shows of anger. Courtroom outbursts may adversely affect the outcome of a child custody case.Courtroom dress: A father who is interested in getting child custody should wear a dark suit and dress shoes to court. A father should avoid casual wear to all courtroom hearings.The best interests of the child: In awarding custody to a father, a court will consider the best interests of a child. A father seeking custody of a child should be prepared to explain in court why sharing custody with a child's mother does not serve the child's best interests. Obstacles to Fathers Getting Child Custody There are certain obstacles involved with fathers getting child custody including: Paternity determination: If parents are not married, a court may want a father to provide proof of paternity prior to ordering custody.The other parent's wishes: The child's mother may also request custody and a court of law is reluctant not to offer joint custody unless extenuating circumstances exist such as domestic violence.The child's wishes: The court may also consider a child's wishes prior to awarding a father custody of a child depending on the age of the child and the child custody laws of that particular state. For more information about how fathers can get child custody, speak with a qualified attorney in your state or refer to more references about strategies to help fathers win even full child custody. How Fathers Can Get Full Custody of Their Children Was this page helpful? Thanks for your feedback! Get expert tips to help your kids stay healthy and happy. Sign Up You're in! Thank you, {{form.email}}, for signing up. There was an error. Please try again. What are your concerns? Other Inaccurate Hard to Understand Submit