Teens Teen Life The Teen Slang Dictionary for Parents By Amy Morin, LCSW facebook twitter instagram Amy Morin, LCSW, is the Editor-in-Chief of Verywell Mind. She's also a psychotherapist, international bestselling author and host of the Mentally Strong People podcast. Learn about our editorial process Amy Morin, LCSW Fact checked by Fact checked by Andrea Rice on June 24, 2020 facebook twitter linkedin Andrea Rice is an award-winning journalist and a freelance writer, editor, and fact checker specializing in health and wellness. Learn about our editorial process Andrea Rice Updated on June 24, 2020 Print Table of Contents View All Overview General People or Relationships Compound Slang Slang to Pay Attention To Resources Teens in each generation develop a unique language of their own. Think "outta sight," "phat," "rents," "gag me with a spoon," "radical," and "peace out." But even though you're a part of youth culture (and the slang that defines it) when you're young, it gets harder to "keep up with the joneses" when you become a parent. Verywell / Cindy Chung Overview Trying to figure out what teens are saying is increasingly challenging, as the explosion of social media, memes, digital communication, and the ever-present-cellphone means teen-speak is evolving faster than ever. Essentially, if you blink, you're likely already out of touch. Some of this slang enters the mainstream vernacular—and by that point, is no longer cool—or "sic." Most of these words simply disappear as they lose favor with kids and are almost instantaneously replaced with new ones. So, as cool and up to speed as we adults think we may be, most of us could benefit from a primer on the latest teen slang. We cover it all below, from social media acronyms and text message shorthand to code words for drugs, friends, and parties. It's important to educate yourself about common teen slang so that you understand what your teen is talking about—both online and in-person. General Teen slang words may be confusing to those not in-the-know, but most are harmless and a part of a teen's identity. Kids use these words to exert independence, sound cool, and/or to fit in with their peers. They seek to differentiate themselves from their parents and want to feel unique, free, and even revolutionary. Using slang helps teens do that while also bonding with friends. Below are some common teen slang words you might hear: Dope - Cool or awesomeGOAT - "Greatest of All Time"Gucci - Good, cool, or going wellLit - Amazing, cool, or excitingOMG - An abbreviation for "Oh my gosh" or "Oh my God"Salty - Bitter, angry, agitatedSic/Sick - Cool or sweetSnatched - Looks good, perfect, or fashionable; the new "on fleek"Fire - Hot, trendy, amazing, or on point (formerly "straight fire")TBH - To be honestTea - Gossip, situation, story, or newsThirsty - Trying to get attentionYOLO - "You Only Live Once" (often used ironically) People or Relationships Relationships are an important aspect of adolescence. In the teen years, kids develop their own identities and explore who they are outside of their families. Interactions with their peers are a key component of this process—and they often create unique words to describe their friendships and romantic relationships. Here are some slang words your teen might use when talking about other people: Bae - "Before anyone else," babe, or baby is used to describe a boyfriend, girlfriend, or good friendBasic - Boring, average, or unoriginalBF/GF - Boyfriend or girlfriend (used when texting, not in conversation)BFF - "Best friends forever"Bruh - Bro or dude (all three terms are gender-neutral)Cap - Fake or a lieCurve - To reject someone romantically (related to "ghosting")Emo - Someone who is emotional or a drama queenFam - Group of friendsFlex - To show offA Karen - A disparaging way to describe a petty middle-aged woman, who is rude, especially to people who work in the service industry. (For example, saying, "What a Karen," about someone who returns their drink at a restaurant for not having enough ice.)No cap - Totally true or no lieNoob/n00b - A person who doesn't know what they're doing or who is bad at something; in other words, a newbiePeriodt - End of statement emphasizer. For example: “That’s the best ice cream, periodt.”Ship - You might "ship" two people together, as in they should be a couple; derived from relationshipShook - To be incredibly shocked or shaken upSquad - Group of friends that hang out together regularly, used ironicallySus - Suspicious, shady, not to be trustedThrow shade - To give someone a dirty lookTight - In a close relationship or friendshipTool - Someone who is stupid, obnoxious, rude, and/or embarrasses themselves, often a jock type Compound Slang Teens often create shortcuts by combining two words together. To understand what they mean, you need to know the definition of each word. Here are some examples of compound teen slang: Crashy - Crazy and trashy, like a trainwreckCrunk - Getting high and drunk at the same time, or crazy and drunkHangry - Hungry and angryRequestion - Request and a question, or to question againTope - Tight and dope Parties, Drugs, and Sex Teens are prone to experiment and push boundaries—and also to talk a big game. So, sometimes the below words will simply be used in fun or boasting. However, sometimes they indicate risky (or potentially risky) behavior. For the most part, teen get-togethers are a fun rite of passage and aren't automatically anything to be concerned about. However, parties (and related teen slang) can raise concerns over supervision, appropriate behavior, the use of illegal substances, alcohol, peer pressure, bullying, and unprotected sex. Whether or not your child is involved in any inappropriate or dangerous activities, you'll want to know what they're talking about and be attuned to any words that might indicate possible trouble. Below is a list of some social slang to be aware of: 53X - SexCU46 - See you for sexDayger - Party during the dayFunction/Func - PartyKick back - Small partyMolly - Ecstasy (MDMA), a dangerous party drugNetflix and Chill - Used as a front for inviting someone over to make out (or maybe more)Rager - Big partySmash - To have casual sexSloshed - To be drunkThe plug - Someone that supplies alcohol/drugsThrow down - To throw a partyTurnt - To be high or drunk (formerly "turnt up")X - EcstasyWTTP - Want to trade photos?LMIRL - Let's meet in real life Resources Teen slang changes continuously. If you aren't sure what a slang term means, the website Urban Dictionary can help. It's dedicated to keeping up with today's slang and is a resource that parents can use. Be warned, however, as it features user-submitted content that may be crude. Slang Apps There are also phone apps that can help you translate teen slang. SlangIt - The Slang Dictionary and the Chat Slang Dictionary are just a few examples of mobile apps that can decode your teen's secret language. Additionally, you can simply try asking your teen—or other teens you know—to translate slang you don't understand. Bringing up these words with your teen may be awkward but might also provide a doorway to important conversations with your child. A Word From Verywell Aim to balance safety with privacy and independence for your teen. Talk with your teen about the concerns you have, your family rules and expectations, as well as safe and healthy social media usage. Teenagers need to be able to have private conversations with their friends. And clearly, you can't monitor what your teen is doing or talking about all the time. Still, you may want to monitor your teen's social media feeds at times, and pay attention when they're chatting with their pals. If you see or hear conversations that worry you—or that you can't decode—be ready to take action as needed. Was this page helpful? Thanks for your feedback! Get diet and wellness tips to help your kids stay healthy and happy. Sign Up You're in! Thank you, {{form.email}}, for signing up. There was an error. Please try again. What are your concerns? Other Inaccurate Hard to Understand Submit Article Sources Verywell Family uses only high-quality sources, including peer-reviewed studies, to support the facts within our articles. Read our editorial process to learn more about how we fact-check and keep our content accurate, reliable, and trustworthy. Pfeifer JH, Berkman ET. The Development of Self and Identity in Adolescence: Neural Evidence and Implications for a Value-Based Choice Perspective on Motivated Behavior. 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